I exist in the grey. I want to exist there. I want the capacity to shift freely — fluidly. The only decision I have arrived at is that my capacity for love is not limited by gender. The queer experience, being the ever evolving exploration of learning and expanding — self, gender identity, sexual preferences, not to mention the way I choose to express all of these, is in a constant state of change. I think of anything that I share publicly about my queer experience as…